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If you have:

Hot flashes
Itchy skin
Breast tenderness
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Memory lapses
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Loss of libido
Dry vagina
Irregular periods
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CAN'T ZIP UP HER PANTS IN MINNESOTA

Dear Crabby:

My menopause symptoms have been moderate and I feel lucky to have escaped hot flashes.  But I am getting fatter by the second.  I am 5 foot 3 inches tall, 46 years old and have weighed 130 pounds most of my life.  Within one year I have gained a whopping 15 pounds.  I am having problems with high blood pressure and I look and feel terrible.  I would rather have hot flashes than turn into the Pillsbury Dough Girl.  Help!

Signed,
The Pillsbury Dough Girl from Minnesota

Dear Pillsbury Dough Girl:

Weight gain may be the most difficult change that occurs during menopause.  We live in a society that celebrates young, skinny women so when we start to gain weight, whether it’s from childbirth, bad eating habits, lack of exercise, aging or menopause it is emotionally depressing.   Your weight history seems stable and healthy, so no doubt you have good eating and exercising habits.  As your hormones fluctuate during menopause you start shifting fat to your mid-section because your progesterone and estrogen levels decrease.  Progesterone increases your metabolism, so as it decreases so does your metabolism. As estrogen levels start to fall your body searches for stored estrogen in fat cells.  It is natural for the body to increase fat cells as it tries to increase the estrogen that is now decreasing from your ovaries. 

Also, women gain an average of one pound per year starting in their late thirties.  So this can add weight as well.  You are 46 years old, and if you started gaining that one pound per year starting at 38, that equals eight pounds.  Over half the additional weight you are now noticing during menopause.

So fluctuating hormones during menopause can cause an increase in weight and natural aging.   But poor food choices and lack of exercise are unforgiving at this time in your life. If you already have a good exercise program, you may need to increase the time and intensity of your routine.  If you eat well, cutting portions may show results.

Start keeping a food and exercise diary.  Record your menopause symptoms.  According to the BMI (Body Mass Index) charts you are not obese, but considered slightly overweight for your height.  This is the perfect time to make hormone, food and exercise adjustments.  As you have already experienced being overweight raises your risk of many diseases such as high blood pressure.  Extra weight makes the blood vessels constrict.  Doing 30 minutes of exercise everyday can maintain your current weight. Exercising one hour a day is optimum.  Studies have shown that people who briskly walk 30 minutes everyday lost up to 30 pounds over time and lowered their blood pressure.

So, try incorporating a 30- minute power walk every day, cutting your eating portions and discuss hormone therapy with your doctor.  And for faster results exercise 60 minutes a day.

Signed,
A Zipped Up Dear Crabby

Check your BMI on-line at: http://www.nhlbisupport.com/bmi/bmicalc.htm

 



 
   
   
 
     
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